My name is Tansy. I was born in 1993, I am a cis woman, and I live in London but study in Nottingham, so spend a lot of time there. In Spring 2012 I decided it would be interesting to start sharing my whole life on the internet, including all the embarrassing, depressing, and sexy bits. It’s an experiment in lack of privacy and these are the results.
I try and post once a day, alternating between text and picture posts, though I don’t have as much time as I used to so updates can be sporadic. Picture posts are modelling work, though as I’m not modelling much anymore, most of the pictures are quite old. Text posts are…stuff. Frequent subjects are mental health stuff (I’ve been having on and off depressive episodes since I was 12), sex/kink/relationship stuff (I am polyamorous, with a long term boyfriend and long term girlfriend, active on the fetish scene with multiple sexual partners, and am a sex worker, specifically a pro-Domme through webcam and phone as well as in person; I'm also on the autistic spectrum so that affects me too), ranty rambley thinky stuff (feminism, body acceptance, social shit) and arts and culture stuff.
I think I’ve been running this long enough now to mention that stuff I thought in spring 2012 is not necessarily the same stuff that I think right now. My opinions and thoughts change all the time, so not all of this blog accurately reflects my current thinking. I never go back and edit apart from occasionally spelling mistakes and fixing broken links so I can look up how I felt about stuff at a particular time; there is stuff on this blog which I look at and I’m like “really? I thought that? Jesus".